Assignment9-1

Abdirizak Isse
Humn341
Assignment9-1
March29, 2009


In early 1998 Meg Ryan and Tom Hanks introduced a wonderful movie about the world to online romance in the movie known as “You’ve got Mail” which was one of its kind movie, and became one of the best movie in that season. Around eight years later, according to Online Facts and Stats, 2007, it is estimated that more than 20 million people visit online dating sites each month looking for a true partner who they can share their feeling and love. Online Facts and Stats, 2007. Do we all believe online dating work or is it a romantic waste of time? The answer of this question it depends who you ask, and their perception about this manner. To me it is obvious that most of the single people often lack confidence in seeking romantic social networking and are limited to finding locations to meet other single people. Nowadays, many single people work full time, have children, and don’t have the time to network for romance. Matchmaking websites allow people from around the world to communicate in virtual settings to get to know the person before actually meeting them, and make sure that they do not get into trouble. Also, online dating allows people to date anonymously to people outside of their demographics in a safe environment without being prejudged by appearances. Many matchmaking websites require people to fill out questionnaires that scientifically match them with people who have similar values, core traits, and relationship skills (Scientific Matching, 2008). These questionnaires are essentially a “romantic resume” that is sent to prospective matches that are compatable with their personality. According to Online Dating Magazine, more than 120,000 marriages resulted from online dating. Online Facts and Stats, 2007. On the other hand, online dating can deceptive. Often, people lie about themselves, creating a fictitious life for a virtual fantasy. There is no way of providing background checks for the true identity of every person seeking romance. For instance, you could be talking with an online predator that claims to be an entrepreneur in real estate, but is actually looking to swindle a person out of financial resources. Other deceptive profiles might include embellished salaries, education, and physical appearance. For example, often older people post their photo in younger age. Nevertheless, as people become more experienced with internet dating, they are taking extra steps to avoid being a victim in this taught environment. It is clear that today’s technology particularly the Internet has allowed people to avoid the stereotypes of physical attraction and find the perfect person that fits their personality. There is no doubt that true romance will triumph after looks lighten and our bodies’ age, so the key to romance is matching personality. Finally, online dating is the ultimate blind date, but we can make perfect romance, if everyone stops two-faced characteristics, and truthful and being honest.